Ex-Sex.... Should it happen?

So I have a topic that I want to talk about this time for my blog:
Ex-Sex, or quite simply, sex with your ex.

So if you break up with someone is it okay to still continue having sex with the person you broke up with?

Well let's examine some possibilities....

If you end on a bad break up, where one or both of you have ill feelings towards each other; even though angry sex can be amazing, it is definitely a bad idea. DO NOT DO IT!!!!
If it was a bad relationship and there was a lot of drama and craziness, having sex with that person can bring you back into all that mess. And it is also possible that one of you is likely to have their feelings hurt by expecting too much. Still bad relationship ending, bad idea, no matter how you spin it.

Okay, so say you have a good break up and it's one of those kinds where you either are still gonna be good friends, or some other way where you ended up on good terms.
Then yes, it can be a good thing or considered okay, but with a few rules.
For starters, don't continue having sex with your ex if you are already pursing another relationship. That is Rule #1.
Second, don't do it if it will prevent one or both of you from finding and meeting new people. That is definitely not a good way to move on. ...sidenote, if your not ready to move on then yes it can be a good idea, but only if both parties agree to the terms.
And now to the third thing, both parties need to agree, be aware, and except the terms of the fuck buddy system they are entering into at that time period.
Fourth, Ex-Sex is not right if it is simply a means to hold on to someone or the relationship you once had.
And I guess while there are more reasons, I will leave with a final thought. If you can't trust your ex, then you probably shouldn't be having sex with them for multiple reasons. But two main reasons are that if you can't trust them then you cant trust they aren't going to hurt you or your heart, and you wont trust they aren't messing around with multiple partners that can potentially expose you to disease.

While under the right circumstances, Ex-Sex can be okay. But in the wrong situations and pretenses, and can be self destructive. Choose wisely friends

That's all for now....
More to come....
Stay tuned....